Your Feelings Are Real, But They Are Not Your Ultimate Authority

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You feelings are real. You may feel overwhelmed. You may feel afraid. You may feel wounded. You may feel angry. You may feel like you are carrying more than you know how to express. But real isn’t ultimate. Feelings are not a place to set your doctrine because feelings will change based on circumstances. Something as silly as a hard day or as serious as a painful memory, a frightening diagnosis, or even somebody else’s careless words can change how you feel.

“I feel peace about it” is heard often these days as a way to justify decisions in whether something is right before God. But a person can feel at peace walking in complete disobedience. Jonah laid down to sleep on the ship that was trying to flee from the command of God. Just because you have a quiet feeling does not mean you have peace with God.

God does not ask us to ignore our heart. David cried out his fears, his sadness, and his troubles before God. The Psalms are full of these raw moments of honesty from David. But David didn’t set his feelings on a throne. He brought them before God and let the truth of God’s Word settle his heart.

Psalm 42 makes this process plain. The psalmist asks God, “Why art thou cast down, O my soul?” He doesn’t pretend everything is alright. He doesn’t listen to every whim his emotions say either. He speaks truth to his soul saying, “hope thou in God.” This is not denial this is choosing faith in God over letting the darkest thought tell you it has authority.

This is important because our culture is telling us to follow our hearts. But Jeremiah 17: 9 reminds us the heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked. Our hearts do not need a pep talk; our hearts need the light of God’s Word to shine upon them. Our hearts can call sinfulness “freedom”, call selfishness “self-care”, call fear “wisdom”, and call rebellion “authenticity”. Scripture corrects these deceptions when we cannot see them ourselves.

So when your feelings and the Bible seem to be at odds with each other. Don’t throw out the Bible. Take your emotions captive to the light of Scripture. Read the passage in context. Pray through it honestly. Ask God to show you where your thinking is skewed. Then obey what God has said even if your emotions don’t agree yet.

The Word of God is not out to ridicule the hurting heart. It gives the hurting heart something solid to stand on. Feel whatever you feel, but allow God’s Word to have the final say. Jesus Christ is Lord regardless if the day feels sunny or stormy.
 
Needed to read this this morning, as I have felt a LOT of heaviness and sadness over the last week, feeling like I was doing fine managing everything and then all at once all the stresses have caught up with me. I may be wallowing a little. Thank you for this reminder.
 
Hello, everyone;

Psalm 42
is uplifting. King David relates to his human emotions that we can relate to, even way back in the Old Testament. As we strive to mature in our walk with the Lord, we learn to distinguish between the world's instant gratification and God's Word which sustains us much further.

I woke up at 3am last night with "brain chatter," thoughts of our personal life that don't have answers. After praying I came to my senses, with all God is doing, why would He forsake me now? He doesn't. I fell back to asleep and woke up around 8am.

Our human emotions are human and we all have them. But this doesn't mean we throw out the Bible. (Amen, David) It's like ignoring God's Word.

This isn't easy peasy. It can be difficult, it takes discipline (discipleship) and that's where the Bible teaches us we can lean on Christ for everything, even when we don't get that instant answer or "way out," God fills us with that peace and calm because He is always with each of us.

God bless everyone.

Bob
 
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