If only a few are saved, doesn't that make God a loser?
Hi Rose,
This question could be taken as a "continuation" of your previous post about our loved ones "living in sin" ...
However,
David's opening response to your question, is so to the point:
"The tragedy of the “few” is not that God loses. It is that so many sinners do." We should be trying to educate our loved ones (no matter how much rejection we receive), and to pray that their "hardened hearts" are "softened", that their "eyes" and "ears" are opened, and our understanding increases. The other important thing is: "Jesus Himself said,
“Broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat” (Matthew 7:13). He also said that the way to life is narrow,
“and few there be that find it” (Matthew 7:14)"
Your question may not be directly answered yet, however these following verses hold so much value. This is continuing from your previous post, where I found direction, in the grief of our unbelieving loved ones, in Jesus's teachings:
Jesus taught that f
ollowing Him requires prioritizing discipleship above all familial ties, often using hyperbolic language to emphasize that
family loyalty must not supersede loyalty to God.
Matthew 12:46–50, Jesus redefines family not by blood but by
spiritual obedience, declaring that
"whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister and mother.
1 Corinthians 13:12 pulls it all together.
Dealing with our own rejection? Who am I (we), compared with what Jesus went through, for us?
Isaiah 53:3, which prophesies that He would be
"despised and rejected by men," and the
Gospel of John (1:11), which states, "He came to his own, and
his own people did not receive him." Specific accounts of this rejection include His rejection by
religious leaders (John 1:10–11; Luke 7:45–52),
His own family (John 7:5), and
His hometown of Nazareth (Mark 6:3–6; Luke 4:28–29). Additionally,
Psalm 118:22 and
Matthew 21:42 refer to Jesus as the "stone the builders rejected," a theme also echoed in
1 Peter 2:7.
"Enter through the narrow gate"
Matthew 7:13–14: "For
wide is the gate and
broad is the road that
leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But
small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it.
- John 10:9 — "I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved."
- Isaiah 35:8 — "A highway will be there… called the Way of Holiness."
- Proverbs 4:27 — "Do not swerve to the right or the left; keep your foot from evil."
- Proverbs 3:6 — "In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."
God is in Control
Psalm 103:19 "The Lord has established his throne in heaven, and
his kingdom rules over all."
Isaiah 46:10 "Declaring the end from the beginning…
My counsel shall stand, and I will accomplish all my purpose."
Colossians 1:16–17 "In him all things were created…
He is before all things, and in him all things hold together."